Cougar (cougar.sangria)

Resident Since: 2010-06-23 (14年, 10ヶ月 ago)

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AUWrfIF8TUs&list=RDAUWrfIF8TUs&start_radio=1 Hangin' The Moon]

O' GREAT SPIRIT,help me always to speak the truth quietly,to listen with an open mind when others speak,and to remember the peace that may be found in silence~Cherokee Prayer

When you were born,you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die,the world cries and you rejoice~White Elk

Never explain. Your friends do not need it and your enemies will never believe it~E. Hubbard

ON THE FLIP SIDE:

Due to circumstances beyond my control, I harbor within me a beast, a bitch, an angel and a lady. Which one you meet depends on your attitude and the way you approach me. The choice is yours. May the odds be ever in your favor.
I believe in treating all with kindness, and respect, but understand this: If you betray me, take advantage of me, engage in shady shit, or confront me with baseless grievances on your part, kindness and respect will be the last thing you receive. I won't hesitate to block all access using, the mute, block, and derender buttons, after I give you a few choice colorful words. I am exhausted by the cruel, petty games people play here. After fifteen years, I seek peace in my Second Life. DON'T MESS WITH IT.
Straightens my crown and smiles. YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED. LET'S MOVE ON. SHALL WE?

When God shows you it's time to let someone go and you refuse to, he will allow the person to hurt you to the point you have no choice but to let go.

Whatever you hear about me, please believe it. I no longer have time to explain myself. You can also add some if you want. Just remember there are three sides to every story. Her's, his, and the screenshots.

I do not worry anymore about the people GOD removed from my life. He heard conversations I didn't, saw things I couldn't, made moves I wouldn't, and showed me things I would not have believed.

Not everyone gets the same version of me, whether in this virtual world or first. One person might tell you that I am an amazing, beautiful soul. Another person will say I am a cold-hearted bitch. Believe them both, I act accordingly.

Whatever others choose to say about you, or do behind your back. Let them. You step aside and allow it.
The truth is clear: they knew exactly how much they were hurting you, and they didn't care. They made their choices knowing full well it would result in losing you, and they went ahead and did it anyway.
Those who truly love you are considerate of your feelings. That’s the absolute reality.
The lack of respect, the absence of apologies, the disregard for your well-being, the failure to take accountability, and the dishonesty you’ve faced are all the closure you need from so called lovers and friends. It’s time to let them go.
Avoid all situations where you might become the topic of conversation when you leave their presence.
Yes, you can still be kind and love them deeply, but do it from the distance they’ve created through their words and actions. Access to you is a privilege, and they have proven they can’t be trusted with it. Let them go.
You don’t owe anyone your side of the story. God already knows the truth!

People always talk about how important it is to forgive others for how they hurt you, and how that's what will give you peace, but I don't agree with that.
The most important person you need to forgive is yourself. Once you forgive yourself for allowing another to treat you in a way you don't deserve to be treated, once you forgive youself for giving too many chances, once you forgive youself for being foolish enough to justify the lies, and once you forgive yourself for not leaving sooner, you will find peace.

This year, 2025, I'm focusing on myself. I've done enough for the ungrateful.

I've also learned to stop being so fucking forgiving. People know exactly what the fuck they are doing.

Letting someone create a false narrative of you is a small price to pay having rid yourself of toxicity. Let them say what they want, your life will flourish and their lies will rot theirs.

To all you 'Mother Fuckers' out there holding your breath waiting for me to fail...You can suffocate.

There is one thing you must realize...ONE THING you must understand. I cannot be broken. I will not go down. Even when you think I have. Even if it appears I did. I will pick myself up over and over again, dust my ass off and move on. For I am a survivor. I WILL ALWAYS STAND MY GROUND AND RISE. YOU WILL NOT DEFEAT ME.

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHwVBirqD2s I'M STILL STANDING]

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