Cougar (cougar.sangria)

Resident Since: 2010-06-23 (15 years, 6 months ago)

***I KNOW 🤪 There's a lot to read here in my profile. Take it up with Linden Labs. They gave me the space, and I am not one to ever waste anything.

O' GREAT SPIRIT, help me always to speak the truth quietly, to listen with an open mind when others speak, and to remember the peace that may be found in silence~Cherokee Prayer

When you were born,you cried and the world rejoiced. Live your life so that when you die, the world cries and you rejoice~White Elk

Never explain. Your friends do not need it and your enemies will never believe it~E. Hubbard

ON THE FLIP SIDE:

When God shows you it's time to let someone go and you refuse to, he will allow the person to hurt you to the point you have no choice but to let go.

Whatever you hear about me, please believe it. I no longer have time to explain myself. You can also add some if you want.

I do not worry anymore about the people GOD removed from my life, whether it is my first or second life. He heard conversations I didn't, saw things I couldn't, made moves I wouldn't, and showed me things I would not have believed.

Not everyone gets the same version of me, whether in this virtual world or first. One person might tell you that I am an amazing, beautiful soul. Another person will say I am a cold-hearted bitch. Believe them both, I act accordingly.

Whatever others choose to say about you, let them. Step aside and LET THEM. The truth is clear: they knew exactly how much they were hurting you, and they didn't care. They made their choices knowing full well it could result in losing you, and they went ahead anyway. Those who truly love you are considerate of your feelings. That’s the absolute reality. The lack of respect, the absence of apologies, the disregard for your well-being, the failure to take accountability, and the dishonesty you’ve faced are all the closure you need. It’s time to LET THEM GO. Decide now to avoid situations where you might become the topic of conversation when you leave their presence. You can still be kind and love them deeply, but do it from the distance they’ve created through their words and actions. Access to you is a privilege, and they have proven they can’t be trusted with it. Let them go. You don’t owe anyone your side of the story. God already knows the truth!

I've also learned to stop being so fucking forgiving. People know exactly what the fuck they are doing.

[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZHwVBirqD2s I'M STILL STANDING]

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