Jan (janice.seraph)

Resident Since: 2004-11-27 (21 years, 9 months ago)

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🍸Host at THE WAREHOUSE+ ☠ - Extreme Kink
🕶 Host at City of New Severa Beach Cyberpunk/Supernatural
😢 Host at Hurt Feelings a Club for Emotional Sadomasochists
➡ Often AFK handing Admin things, trying not to drop IMs, or doing Photography
🍸THE WAREHOUSE+ is a laid back club for extreme play. IF YOU WANT TO FIND ME, START THERE? I'm probably not able to leave the club I'm responsible for to scene privately with you.
➡ I'm an adult avatar - questions about my height/build. My AV is old enough to drink. Read PICKS →
➡ Want to scene with me? Read PICKS →
⚠ Interested in a POWER EXCHANGE being OWNED or OWNING me - Read DOWN BELOW THE FOLD ↓


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POWER EXCHANGES/OWNERSHIP/OWNING

This profile space used to be limited, but now seems to be unlimited, whereas picks are still short, so I'm putting some complex information here, below the fold.

Yes, I'm owned. No, I don't wear RLV, but it is tattooed on my body in multiple places. My owner is the Port of Severa. As to who or what that is, "it's complicated." I'm happy to explain, and it's not a secret, but it's also not a short-form answer.

SCHEDULING
My work for the Severa Sim and the Warehouse+ means I have a tight schedule. I usually have to schedule long-term play that goes outside of casual messing around at events in advance. If I schedule, I make every effort to show up. If I'm not certain, I try to be very clear about that in advance. I respect other people's time and take it seriously. I never expect you to be waiting for me if I am not sure I can make it.

PROSPECTIVE TOPS / DOMINANTS / OWNERS

Here's what it does and doesn't mean to you. And I understand if these things are dealbreakers, though I think they are generally reasonable.

It definitely does NOT mean that if I arrange a scene with you, some stranger has the right to interrupt, interfere, communicate with you, or tell you what to do. If I agree to do a thing with you, I'm yours within that scope. I abhor the idea of tops attempting to assert control over other tops by 'setting terms' on their submissives. My limitations are clearly spelled out up front. I am not "supervised."
• I can do sceneplay
• I can submit to you.
• I can engage in limited Power Exchange.
• I can do (within reason) homework or side tasks.
• I can wear RLV for you.
• I can serve you.
• I can decide who I do and don't have sex with.

In practical terms, in the mid-2020s, that means I'm "owned" by my work, both visibly as a hostess at the Warehouse+, and less visibly as Admin for the Severa Sim.

What I CANNOT do
• Place your needs above my commitments to the Warehouse or the Severa Sim.
• This particularly includes scheduled events.
• Accept restrictions that bind me in terms of behavior or sex when I am away from you.
• Make significant changes to my av on a long-term basis. I might be able to accept marks that did not cover or deface my existing marks, but that's a big conversation.
• Control my Social Media - my social media posts are part of my service and some degree of what I post is mandated.

Just for framing purposes, my situation goes back to 2011, and I have no interest in being "freed." I'm the sort of alpha slave that ran the Byzantine Empire, not the sort of slave that wants to lay around complaining about her circumstances.

PROSPECTIVE BOTTOMS / SUBMISSIVES / PROPERTY

• My responsibilities are not yours, and I do not believe that people in service to me automagically end up in service to the people I serve.
• My time is super limited, and I will be the first one to openly tell you that up front. I prefer sceneplay relationships and Dominant/Submissive situations to far-reaching power exchange or Ownership, because they are fairer.
• I have very limited bandwidth to monitor people when they are not around me.
• If I commit to an activity or time, I try to be present both physically and mentally

In most regards, the real takeaway here is that for me, power exchanges in SL are a lot more like actual RL power exchanges (we have planned dates, we may have some activities or responsibilities outside of that, but we also have jobs, and social activities) between non-cohabiting people, and less like the imaginary "50 Shades" type power exchanges common in SL. I do take responsibilities quite seriously.

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