Paige (paige.addams)

Resident Since: 2018-01-05 (8 years, 8 months ago)

Note: In some crowds I might seem short not being 7 feet tall, but I am an adult ! If you message me and from your profile look off some how, either carton or some other silliness or look like a creeper it is unlikely I will reply, no offense I just don't see any point wasting time. I tend to be quiet and often keep to myself except around people I know well, I am not anti social rather likely doing something or chatting in IMs so not often greet first. Also, most might not care about this, but I tend to turn PBR support off sometimes because it seems there are issues with FS and this is what I use. With this turned off seems fps goes up which is good. :-) This is also why I make a point not to wear things made with PBR, I heard many have issues with it and don't see a compelling reason to use it it.

Hey there, I am Paige and came here to enjoy the beauty, wonder, and creativity SL has to offer and to make kind-hearted human friends (Women and Men) while in my travels of this vast land. NO interest in sick minded people, creepers, or obviously anyone who likes misogyny (hate of women).

WARNING: I am not your average woman here in SL and have my issues which I felt is best to share, lest of which I am picky. I have seen the following scare people away, but nothing of quality is easy. As someone once said, quality people and relationships are like apples and the best are at the top of the tree requiring the most effort, not laying on the ground. I don't see myself as better than anyone else who makes an honest effort to look and act nice.

I try not to be judgmental, but there are bridges I will not cross and that goes to my core values. Many women are now celebrating obesity in SL which seems insane, and as someone whose RL family has been affected by it, believe me, it's not fun! Obesity carries with it many potentially serious health problems, including heart disease, stroke, osteoarthritis, and cancer. Often obesity has the potential to cause diabetes and if a person already has prediabetes (1/3 of Americans do) this combined with other risk factors has a strong chance of causing diabetes. Diabetes is a serious disease and if not manged there is a strong chance it will take your eye sight, foot, leg, or kill you, but not before it causes organ failure and other serious problems. No one with any sense would see this as fun and playing this in SL mocks sick people in RL! So I won't participate in or otherwise support this practice of being/looking unhealthy and over weight dancing around like its good.. because it so is NOT! I never been one to blindly follow a crowd and rather go my own way rather than jump off a cliff because others do or its trendy, No doubt some people will judge me as mean for sharing this and and not socialize with me and that's fine, but any RL lives saved make it worth it.

Strange and amusing observations, it seems puzzling seeing people in here 8 or more years with some ID that looks of random letters using display-name for a name rather than go through LL and get a nice name. A funny one, how many times have you gone to the beach and seen women walking around in heels in the sand, this would be so unpleasant in RL LOL. (It takes only a few seconds to take shoes off in SL and don't forget to adjust feet to stop tip toe walking) Not to be outdone by people at fishing events in evening gowns or suits... Many of these fishing games are expensive and would seem if people have L$ for games they should have some to get summer clothes, Some things make no sense .....

As a suggestion there is no reason to go around with a free system body anymore regardless how tight the budget. LL has been providing FREE mesh body and head for sometime now and yes with clothes. If you don't have the L$ for clothes you should try what LL provides and will find something that work with your body.

I am an optimist, curious by nature, and love adventure. I am attracted to good manners, compassion, empathy, common sense, beauty, and thoughtfulness . For me those traits, and communications in a relationship are important and without them the relationship will die like a flower without sunlight. Consider the following: saying "sweet dreams" or "good night" instead of typical "night," asking someone "please come here" instead of saying "come."Any fool can be mean and nasty or indifferent, but it takes a special person to rise above that and be compassionate and empathetic toward others. I have no time for mean, rude, or emotionally challenged people. It actually takes less effort to be nice and less likely to cause drama.

Thanks for stopping by, if you like what you read or something I wrote speaks to you I welcome hearing from you. Either way I wish you the best in SL!

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