ilia (ilia.shim)

Resident Since: 2009-01-18 (16 years, 3 months ago)

Hello. I am Ilia, with an "i". Llia is a nice name, but simply not mine.
I am happily married in Real Life and not looking for personal relations in either SL or RL (see picks for some healthy relationship tips).
I mostly wear free avatars and clothing, not to discourage spending L$ - just to demonstrate freeplay capabilities and options. Lucy Body w/BOM add-on is one of my top picks, with MeshBody Classic, Digisona, Erika & others warn frequently.
If you do not recognize what I'm wearing - ask and there might be a way for you to get same for free.

Disclaimer: Since I'm an "A" personality I might come across bit blunt and assertive - please forgive me - likely I simply do not realize it appears that way.

IN SL I IDENTIFY WITH WHATEVE GENDER MY AVATAR IS IN, BUT IF IT DOESN'T MAKE YOU COMFORTABLE FEEL FREE TO ADDRESS ME AS THEY/THEM.

I do not normally voice, but I do have my voice enabled.

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My Likes:
* if someone reads profile before IMing, OMG I love it! Yes it is YOU!
* if someone _attempts_ to find one's interests before striking lengthy self-centered conversation
* if someone knows when they should JUST STOP please
* human kindness in general

Dislikes:
* Making an effort to strike a conversation in IM by just saying "hi". You could have said "hi" in local chat. Me offering assistance in response does not mean I am totally intrigued and motivated by your "hi", it is mostly out of courtesy.
* "Newbie" pickups from seasoned players. Pickups in general. Hey, not everyone is here to hookup. Also if you tell me I have a sexy appearance - I'd thank you and advise where to get one like that for yourself.
* Excessive RP. I'm just not into it, especially where it has no place
* Hate-speech. There are other Social platforms for that. Guess what, I am not on them.
* Trolling. I totally understand its the only way you can express yourself, but leave me out of it.
* Aggression. It won't stand, Man (c) the Dude.
* When someone thinks I am his therapist. I really am not. Please use licensed counseling.

You might find some useful information in my Picks and web-profile-feed.

If you have read this long draggy profile this far - here is a bit of bonus/repeat info- I am REALLY not looking for any new relationships in SL. Somehow relationships have not work for me in SL, and I prefer casual chats and helping. Think of us as accidental travelers meeting on the train of life.

Its not about destination, its all about the journey

I also prefer if I am not contacted for helping reasons if I am off-duty, but if this is something critical - I will surely help, or put you into right direction.

Thanks!

P.S. 1 (Moved from Picks): Meaning of life:
The asnwer is 42
In The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams, 42 is the "Answer to the Ultimate Question of Life, the Universe, and Everything", calculated by a supercomputer named Deep Thought over a period of 7.5M years.
In truth 42, also ASCII code for asterisk, the symbol used to identify wildcard.
Therefore meaning of life is literally EVERYTHING

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